Okay, I don’t know if I’m unlucky or if the ENFPs I know are mostly immature or if they are like that or what. Everywhere it has been said that INFJ and ENFP get wonderfully along, and life is happiness and kind of perfect when they are together but I don’t quite understand why.
It’s weird because some of my fav characters and forever!loved are ENFPs like… Kamina from Gurren Lagann or Maes Hughes from FMA, Luffy, Simba and I don’t have another at the moment but hell, I love them, they are so cheerful and easy going and funny and spontaneous and happy but I guess they are not like that in real life. This isn’t a rant but an observation. I don’t know if it is just me but I think ENFPs love to talk most about themselves and their lives and how much they have suffered, thinking no one would ever understand their feelings, and they switch moods in a blink, that’s a-just-wow!
I had a problem with a friend like this time ago, I couldn’t stand her behaviour anymore and told her not very kind words, she felt attacked naturally, but well. Today I met another ENFP with almost the same problem, I question myself if she has some trouble to make friends… I was about to tell her she wasn’t the center of the world, we all have problems… and we all want to talk from time on time… but I couldn’t /facepalm/
I don’t really have patience for this, but okays, maybe I’m not the typical INFJ or idk. I’ve just met two ENFP lovely girls (I think), one being all happy-go-lucky and the other was inbetween that type and INFP. Now… the two only male ENFPs I know are like hippies (Bob Marley, nature), I get along better but sometimes the face they show life is so… relaxed.
So, can someone explain why is there so much love for this combo? but anyways, I’ll still love my ENFP fictional at least <33
to say the truth I like more ENTPs (I just see how they could be one of the best matches for us, lol) :x
THIS is a personal experience from my living. I saw many of these posts so here is mine (differences some other day). It’s s simplistic stuff.
I’m an INFJ and I have an strong INTJ friend. I think we are pretty alike, yeah. Because:
It’s like we were watching the world with the same eyes; we don’t get fooled by common sayings or false hopes and that make us kind of pessimists. We are both attracted to stories that surprise us, not conventional, we do like arguments, reasons, explanations. We work better alone because we see most of people as just incompetent and we have little care for authority, we try to be self sufficient and autodidact. It’s really surprising. We also don’t have feelings towards some holidays like Christmas or New year, we take them as ordinary or just superficial, marketing days, no big deal. We are even both nocturne criatures, I don’t know if that counts, and procrastinators but really responsible in the end. We do not listen to others unless we want, we are both strongheads, stubborn, proud and think we are almost always (if not always) right. We believe in liberal matters. And being INFJ doesn’t make me the only one able to see people, to see beyond what they show, he, as an INTJ, can see it too. The similarities are so many sometimes that I’ve came to think that he is the only one able to understand what I think in my whole (and if we were together we’d be a really cruel team). We even study the same career! We have the same nature in general… BUT then there are the differences.
“I never felt like that before. Maybe it could be depression, like you get. I can understand how you suffer now when you’re depressed; I always thought you liked it and I thought you could have snapped yourself out any time, if not alone then my means of the mood organ. But when you get that depressed you don’t care. Apathy, because you’ve lose a sense of worth. It doesn’t matter whether you feel better because you have no worth.”—Philip K. Dick - Do Andriods Dream of Electric Sheep (via bootifulstuffs)
“When you have been madly in love with someone, just then, you can smile, laugh and feel happiness everytime you see them. It doesn’t matter if this happens one, two, ten years after you have “gotten over”. It’s a different kind of love now. But you just feel this after you have deeply loved, deeply loved.”—
Jung Explorer Test Actualized type: INFJ (who you are)
INFJ - “Author”.
Strong drive and enjoyment to help others. Complex personality. 1.5% of total population.
Preferred type: ENTJ (who you prefer to be) ENTJ - “Field Marshall”. The basic driving force and need is to lead. Tend to seek a position of responsibility and enjoys being an executive. 1.8% of total population.
Attraction type: INTJ(who you are attracted to) INTJ - “Mastermind”. Introverted intellectual with a preference for finding certainty. A builder of systems and the applier of theoretical models. 2.1% of total population.
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Third time doing this, the first one I got INTJ in everything WTF!hah, now I’m about to die, night =_______=
I feel like if everything is possible, it’s easy… but it’s people the ones that make everything so difficult… they fight for stupid problems, different versions of the same problems, over and over and over… and they can’t see each other…